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发表于 2004-12-17 18:20
本人认为, 上述都"不对不对"

他走了,翁可以继续新的爱情啊,就像杨一样

我觉得人家一个有心一个有意,没什么不好。就像杨与杜半个世纪的爱情,不是因为与翁结婚,就没有了.

这样的感情不必反对,也没有必要鼓励. 随缘最好.

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发表于 2004-12-17 18:22
郎才女貌-自由恋爱-明媒正娶,美丽的爱情,普通人的生活,好得很!

杨老是我敬佩的科学家,首先,是个中国科学家. 他一辈子正直作人,学术有成。和原配夫人恩爱一世.

夫人去世,他一个正常男人,有权利选择将来的生活, 找到一个合适的新伴侣,结婚过日子,非常正常, 非常传统. 难道还要他永远守寡不成?

何况他和那个翁姓女硕士相识已经8年,太太去世后,二人 书信来往后相恋,自由恋爱后结婚,正常的过程,美丽的 爱情.

善良正直的人们,为他们的幸福而祝福!

谁说82岁的男人不能和28岁的女人结婚?谁又说82岁的 女人和28岁的男人不会有爱情?

看人家有了好事,就小人之心,道貌岸然,唧唧喳喳,叫成一团, 笑死人!

可笑的是,今日有些道貌岸然批评讽刺杨老和翁小姐正常婚姻者, 正是昨日鼓吹男人滥性百女计划,或者是鼓吹逛妓院玩牛郎之辈.

许自己偷鸡摸狗,不让别人自由恋爱明媒正娶么?什么世道!

祝贺我们德高望重的老科学家和年轻美丽活泼的夫人, 新婚幸福,早生贵子,长命百岁!

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发表于 2004-12-17 21:35

境由心生,你是怎样的,你眼里的世界就是怎样的。

在不了解的前提下,我愿意相信事情是美好的。(并非特指)

初次和人打交道,我先假设对方是善意的。

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发表于 2004-12-17 21:54
以下是引用liver411在2004-12-17 4:11:37的发言:

那天刚看到这则新闻, 很多人说, 他这么大年纪,娶人家"小姑娘"! 他怎么想的啊, 他没想自己没几年死了, 人家怎么办? 他的生命快完了,人家的生命才刚绽开啊.凑和着娶个50来岁的就行了呗...... 很多人不怎么赞成这样年纪差距太悬殊的婚姻.红颜伴枯骨, 认为老人怎么忍心啊.

经过世事的人多仁慈。

以下是引用breakaleg在2004-12-16 6:28:02的发言:

杨振宁形容翁帆为「上帝恩赐的最后礼物,给我的老灵魂,一个重回青春的欢喜。」

我想说的的是:如果日后“翁帆”可以这样想。。。。。。

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发表于 2004-12-18 03:23

从动物世界角度看,这是资源浪费,也是不可能发生的。

从人类的角度看,这叫权势男和势利女的翻版;为什么不极端一点,让它82岁,让她18岁呢?

伟人和凡人一样,都是不值得崇拜的。

我只崇拜作为人类意义上的个体,不崇拜任何具体个体,所以它们行为和我道德趋向无关。

天空滑过了美丽的翅膀,而我只看到油炸的鸡翅。

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发表于 2004-12-18 03:42
以下是引用wisher在2004-12-17 13:23:23的发言:

从动物世界角度看,这是资源浪费,也是不可能发生的。

这个评价我最喜欢,呵呵!

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发表于 2004-12-18 04:50
以下是引用liver411在2004-12-17 4:22:09的发言:

谁说82岁的男人不能和28岁的女人结婚?谁又说82岁的 女人和28岁的男人不会有爱情?

看人家有了好事,就小人之心,道貌岸然,唧唧喳喳,叫成一团, 笑死人!

可笑的是,今日有些道貌岸然批评讽刺杨老和翁小姐正常婚姻者, 正是昨日鼓吹男人滥性百女计划,或者是鼓吹逛妓院玩牛郎之辈.

许自己偷鸡摸狗,不让别人自由恋爱明媒正娶么?什么世道!

祝贺我们德高望重的老科学家和年轻美丽活泼的夫人, 新婚幸福,早生贵子,长命百岁!

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此位仁兄从人性本善的角度看待自己崇敬的人,却从本恶的角度看待观点相左的人,不仅有失厚道,还略显低俗,呵呵。杨老不过是娶了一个已经离异的在读硕士,似乎还无法吸引男人羡慕的眼球,至于女人们是否心生嫉妒我也不得而知,相信众多网民不过是以自己的人生观去就事论事,却引来阁下如此猜测,实在不敢令人恭维。 让我疑惑的是,女人可以对男人表示崇敬,男人可以觉得女人可爱,但这种关系难道只能用爱情和婚姻去诠释吗,我们的社会关系怎能变的如此简单。 杨老的行为到也无可厚非,无非是让人们坚定了一个事实,知道“大师也是人呀”。翁帆就没那么好运气了,如果翁女士只是看中了杨老的地位和金钱,自然少不了人挖苦她,如果翁女士看中的完全是杨老这个人,虽不至让人对其品质产生怀疑,但对其行为能够理解的应该不在多数,将其视为异类也不过分。这一对伉俪虽无违反法律和人伦,但有违社会生活的常理,人们对其质疑符合正常的思维规律,还好,中国还是正常人多。 这种违背常理的事情多了,正常的社会关系就会遭到冲击,当我老了之后不知能不能对年轻的一辈(异性)表示关心和体贴而不引来侧目,将来如果有了可爱的女儿,看到她尊敬的师长对她关怀呵护,我是应该担心还是开心呢?

本以为八十高龄的人更关心的是养生之道,比如练练太极,写写毛笔字之类,没想到杨老却有一颗如此年轻的心,实话实说,精神确实可嘉,但本人还是认为,此等行为可彰不可学,毕竟我们需要一个协调的社会。

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以下是引用爱就一个字在2004-12-17 14:49:49的发言:

此位仁兄从人性本善的角度看待自己崇敬的人,却从本恶的角度看待观点相左的人,不仅有失厚道,还略显低俗,呵呵。杨老不过是娶了一个已经离异的在读硕士,似乎还无法吸引男人羡慕的眼球,至于女人们是否心生嫉妒我也不得而知,相信众多网民不过是以自己的人生观去就事论事,却引来阁下如此猜测,实在不敢令人恭维。 让我疑惑的是,女人可以对男人表示崇敬,男人可以觉得女人可爱,但这种关系难道只能用爱情和婚姻去诠释吗,我们的社会关系怎能变的如此简单。 杨老的行为到也无可厚非,无非是让人们坚定了一个事实,知道“大师也是人呀”。翁帆就没那么好运气了,如果翁女士只是看中了杨老的地位和金钱,自然少不了人挖苦她,如果翁女士看中的完全是杨老这个人,虽不至让人对其品质产生怀疑,但对其行为能够理解的应该不在多数,将其视为异类也不过分。这一对伉俪虽无违反法律和人伦,但有违社会生活的常理,人们对其质疑符合正常的思维规律,还好,中国还是正常人多。 这种违背常理的事情多了,正常的社会关系就会遭到冲击,当我老了之后不知能不能对年轻的一辈(异性)表示关心和体贴而不引来侧目,将来如果有了可爱的女儿,看到她尊敬的师长对她关怀呵护,我是应该担心还是开心呢?

本以为八十高龄的人更关心的是养生之道,比如练练太极,写写毛笔字之类,没想到杨老却有一颗如此年轻的心,实话实说,精神确实可嘉,但本人还是认为,此等行为可彰不可学,毕竟我们需要一个协调的社会。

不错不错,老兄此贴,深得我心。这种行为不是正常的社会形态,可以理解,不宜提倡。就象同性恋一样,肯定是非常状态,社会会越来越宽容,但当异常的情况越来越多的时候,也要警惕,否则会影响社会总体的发展和人类自身的进化。

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发表于 2004-12-18 06:25

贴几首翁帆写的英文诗,很有意境,韵律也好

Cold here, icy cold there. You belong to neither, leaves have withered. Your face is pale and blue, a tearful smile. Something in your eyes, whispers words of last good-bye. My heart sinks down, tears surge out.

Hot summer. Cheerful Cocktail. You took my hand. We fled into another world of band. You sat by my side, long hair tied behind, cool and killing. Smile floating on the lemonade, soft and smooth. How I was amazed. Your face looked like the cover of the magazine. My head spin. You led my hand, danced along the crazy theme.

Light vied with wine, elegance mixed with fragrance, laughing covered by greetings, the crowed was busy at handshaking. You stood there, eyes on me. I trembled at the sparkles, brighter than the light. A masterpiece from God, I felt dizzy. We were not near, yet we were together.

Days ended. You said, you would wait for me at the Alps side. We would ski against snowflakes dancing in the sky. I gave no answer but a good-bye to accompany your flight. Gone was the plane, I suddenly tasted my pain. I knew I had been silly and stupid, you were in my heart, I shouldn’t have hidden in the dark. I tried to forget your disappointment. I made believe sometime someday, I would tell you, I feel all the same.

My thought struggled at confessing, somehow hesitation ended in flinching. I continued my role of a fool, clinched to my maiden pride, yet secretly indulged in your promise of the white land -- snow measuring down to us, in your arms I am lifted up. The chiming of Christmas bell!

The bell died in the patter of rain, from hell came the laughing of Satan at my brain. Tearful smile, swallowed by the darkness. How could I trace your hair to wipe your tears? My hands reached out, catching nothing but a raindrop, on a leaf that had withered.

Snowflakes have melted into water, we are no more together. posted by 翁帆 @ 2004-08-13 21:28

2004-8-13 星期五(Friday) 晴 Wind Flower

Life was lonely. I used to stand in my balcony, watching the stars shinning far away. I was a seed, full of life, buried in the earth, waiting for the rain of spring.

There came a cool winter night. By the glass wall above the misty sea, we were touching edges of the dream. Red wine painted a fragrant smile. Isn’t it a magic beginning of spring?

Life began again the moment you took my hand. Under the neon light, your kissed set me free. Out from the earth rose a sweet sweet rose. I felt again the warmth of spring.

Each day I see you pass by me. Your broad shoulders are all my dream. You are always here, shinning. My darling monster. If your thoughts are with me, I could see the color of spring.

How could I ever neglect you before? You are the star I have been searching for. Who says sacrifice is moth to the flame? Could you understand I am dying for the spirit of spring?

Your breath caressed my ears; your sweat tiptoed my hands. Through the windowpane, blue sky in my eyes. The night was so pretty and so young. If I could ever stay here forever, I would ignore the hope of spring.

Wind flower. It has captured every young dreamer. I know I should keep away, but your charm carried me away. I hold you so closely and lost in the beauty of spring. # posted by 翁帆 @ 2004-08-13 22:42

2004-8-13 星期五(Friday) 晴 I Have to Go

I have to go, my darling. Spring arrives. Life in nature blooms but breath of love dies. I take a deep inhale, depressed at the freshness. I have to go.

Darling, too many walls have been built between us. Your heart is up where I cannot find. I look into your eyes and see nothing inside. Your smile is no longer here to shine. When clouds abruptly darken the sky, when turns suddenly occupy the road, I have to go.

Darling, my shelter shatters. Sunshine glitters on the sea. Light stings my eyes. Uttering a cry, the sea gull flaps its wings. My island sways in the wind. The waves run onto the rocks – crash, boom, bang. When hope turns into foam, I have to go.

Darling, night no longer lights fire. Access to your voice has expired. I glare at my phone, catching no trace of your name. As stars twinkle, magic slides from my hands. It falls to the ground like china -- crash, boom, bang. When the pieces could no longer make a whole, I have to go.

Darling, the city stands in the dark, dazzlingly splendid. I find no glory but a riot of chaos. Sobriety twists in reality; solidity switches to fragility. I live like a butterfly, struggling out of the cocoon. When sorrow bursts out from the hollow, I have to go.

I have to go, my darling. I once looked over your shoulders and saw a beautiful world. But now, when life is without you, when promise is no longer promise, I have to go. # posted by 翁帆 @ 2004-08-13 23:01

2004-9-1 星期三(Wednesday) 晴 昨晚突然又想写诗了。写完了,往床上一躺,睡了一个好觉。本来想今天修一修改诗,可是下午我突然病了。天旋地转,吓得我以为自已得了森林脑炎,看来莫尔道嘎还在我心里作怪。      因为生病,不想修改诗了。思呈说,诗是在一瞬间完成的。有道理,而且这首诗写的是一个心境,能够再现当时就足够了。      To BG      Fair night, faint light,   Smooth breath by my side.   Rapt gaze upon you,   No fatigue, but felicity      Sweet night, soft light,   No regret, but delight.   I can evade all,   But the hearts entwined.      Pure fondness, true love   Had as a gift, or is earned?      Deep into the night,   Labyrinth turns into heaven,   And fantasy into reality.   Eternity of loyalty.      I touch your forelock,   Gentle breath over my hand,   Silence more intense.

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发表于 2004-12-18 11:36
老夫少妻,情意相投,当然没有错;同性恋也没有错,他们也是人;就象我得了HBV,我也没有错,是无辜的。可是,一个健康的人显然不应该是HBVER,对吧?同理,正常的夫妻,年纪差距也不宜太大,正常的家庭,还是应该是由异性组成,这就是我对这些事情的看法。
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