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发表于 2003-8-11 16:31
爱就一定是每天"死去活来", "软软绵绵", "嘻嘻哈哈", "哭哭啼啼"...么?
爱都是悲剧么?
爱就一定要成为夫妻么?
在这个论坛上(www.hbvhbv.com/forum)就有健康兄弟姐妹提出过愿意给别人半个器官的恳求, 这些人从来不张扬? 只默默地给出.
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"如果让我下星期再做一次, 我也会做...," 这是先生月初将自己60%的肝脏捐献给妻子后对记者所说的, "因为我爱她."
妻子, Elena43岁患有一种肝病仅仅有几年的生命时间; 先生, Teddy, 50岁在医生强烈建议反对下--他的岁数和身体状况如果捐献肝脏会有危险, 将酒和烟通通戒掉并将身体状况提高到捐赠的要求状况要求作为捐赠者.
去年, 因为纽约州有一名兄弟间活体肝脏捐献者死亡的病例, 目前对于活体肝脏捐赠的人筛选非常严格. 双方不仅要通过体质评估合格, 心理上的标准也格外重要, 而且恢复期间短期生活上的支出收入都是医院心理科医生辅导执政的关键.
他们结婚不到四年, 都有从前婚姻带过来的大孩子. Elena的孩子非常感激继父对母亲的爱和捐献.
一般来说, 每年90%的肝脏移植是异体捐赠, 活体肝移植中, 每年大约也仅仅有一例是夫妻间的捐赠.
Elena虽还是看上去有些"黄色"(肝病). 但是因为活体肝脏100%配型, 手术100%成功, 没有排斥, 她将每况愈加, 3个月后, 植入的肝脏将会长到原来她的肝脏体积的90%, 她以前因为疲劳等许多肝脏问题不能和自己的孙子孙女玩耍, 现在也可以了.
"我们是夫妻, 我们是一体", Elena说道,
"其实我很担心他, 我手术后醒来能够听到他那欧洲腔的外国口音是我最大的快乐."
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[B]Husband-To-Wife Liver Donation Declared a Success; Husband Gives 60 Percent of Organ to Wife [/B]
8/10/03 3:22PM
By JIM FITZGERALD, Associated Press Writer
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Teddy Mocibob gave up smoking and drinking, then he did a little gambling.
He surrendered 60 percent of his liver to his wife, Elena, despite doctors' warnings of the possible risks to his health and even his life - and having to cast aside his longtime vices.
"They said we were a 100 percent match and I said `Set up the date and let's go," Mocibob recalled Friday. "I love her. If I had to do it again next week, I would do it."
There won't be any need for that, since doctors have declared the July 29 procedure a success.
"The surgery went extremely well and they're doing extremely well," said Dr. Patricia Sheiner, Westchester Medical Center's director of liver transplants. "There's no evidence of any rejection."
In three months, she said, the transplanted piece of liver that Elena Mocibob received will regenerate to 90 percent of normal size.
Elena, 43, who suffered from a liver disease, would have lived only a few years without a transplant, doctors said.
Before her husband could be a donor, he had to be in good enough health to withstand the surgery and recovery. That meant a cold turkey approach to alcohol and tobacco, habits he picked up in his native Croatia.
Teddy Mocibob, 50, who speaks with a heavy accent, said he knew he could give it all up for her.
Sheiner said it was clear that Teddy Mocibob was willing to do anything for his wife, but that wasn't enough.
"We have to make sure they know the risks," she said.
Potential donors undergo significant screening for more than just physical readiness. Criteria such as how they will handle the emotional and psychological impact of the procedure, and basics like whether they can afford to be out of work for months and if children depend on them also are evaluated.
The intensive screening process was put in place statewide after the death last year of a donor who gave part of his liver to his brother at a New York City hospital.
The Mocibobs have been married less than four years and their four children, all teenage or older, are from previous marriages.
Mocibob, who now has a large Y-shaped scar on his chest, walked slowly into a news conference and sat gingerly. He was released from the hospital August 4.
"I don't think I'll go back to smoking," Mocibob said. "Drinking, I might have a beer or two."
His wife, her skin still slightly yellow, was in a wheelchair and hooked up to an intravenous tube. She will leave the hospital on Monday.
She said she was most looking forward to holding her granddaughter.
"Before, I wasn't able to do anything with them," she said of her grandkids, ages 5 and 2.
Her daughter, Helen Curtin, said she was deeply grateful to her stepfather. Her children "have never seen my mother healthy," she said.
More than 90 percent of all liver transplants are done from cadavers. Of live donations, there's only about one case a year nationwide involving husband and wife.
Elena said she worried about accepting her husband's gift, but said she joked that a main concern was waking up with an accent like his.
In the end, though, Teddy's decision didn't surprise her.
"We're husband and wife," she said. "We're one."
© 2003 The Associated Press
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能够讲出愿意/做到给出自己半个器官的人, 无论是否能够成为现实也好, 日后改变主意也好, 这句话是很有分量的, 并不是谢谢两个字可以回复的.
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