自从知道lg是小三阳，整日心神不宁，每天来这里

yiganxiaosan

我得了心理疾病，要不要离婚，不想跟携带者在一起生活，整天如履薄冰，而且是被欺骗的

geistchangzhi

黑人建议甚好，建议楼主照办！

xianchen

MiddleAgeMan

To: yiganxiaosan

但是得肝癌的概率他比我高几百倍，你这样说话客观吗

this statement is not correct. If he does not need treatment (小三阳, alt<2*uln) then he should be living like normal person. If he has continuous alt>2*uln, then he need treatment. Economicallly, if he has medical insurance, then the cost of entecavir per month is ~1000 Yuan*35%=350 Yuan (I got that percentage from this forum, I am in US, I am also a HBVer). If he does choose to take medicine, up to date there is very small chance that he could stop taking medication. And his chance to get 肝癌 is a little higher than you, not 几百倍.  There are hopes that chronic HBV could be cured. One drug is replicor (Canada), another one is Myrcludex-B(Germany), they all have the chance to be on the market in 5 years. Since your husband is a HBVer, he does need a lot of your supports.

我们还没孩子，在我知道之前感情已经没了，对我态度很差，我不知道要不要坚持了
并不是因为这个，我们吵架后他搬走半年了，之间发生了很多让我心寒的事情

Being a HBVer, I could only give out my opinion on HBV. I do not think that I have the ability to give out marriage advice.

God bless you.

Dan

StephenW

回复 yiganxiaosan 的帖子

我只想说：
你lg是错的，婚之前不告诉你，他的B肝真相。这可能是因为他害怕失去你，但这个决定应该是你的选择。

在我看来，是否接受他回来是由你来决定。你绝对有权利不接受他回来。其他人应该尊重您的
决定。因此，请追求什么是最适合自己的.

yiganxiaosan

回复 MiddleAgeMan 的帖子

Thank you very much for your words, actually your comments relieve my anxiety a lot, to be honest, i will not leave my husband, i only angry that he cheat our marriage, he should tell me the trueth, and he should not leave me alone on quarel, and he should apologize to me for his fault....i deserve that, i am his wife and i am loving him with all my heart and soul....

i am so glad to see the hope, is that real? the two kinds of medicine will be on market in 5 years? really? i am so glad to see the hope,

how old are you ? are you working in the agency that related to this disease? can you return my message back?

MiddleAgeMan

To: yiganxiaosan:

My answer for the 1st paragraph of your post, I am happy that you calm down. In my opinion, in today's crazy world, family is the only place you could expect supports.

About the two new drugs, you may look them on google. What I know of is the following:

There are hopeful to eradicate cccdna, which is the cause of the HBV. Up to date, the only drug could do this is interferon. However the successful rate of interferon is very low, around 8%. The above mentioned two drugs have successful rate replicor (almost 100%, on a small humane sample) and Myrcludex-B (almost 100% on mice). replicor is in phase II and Myrcludex-B is in phase I (Myrcludex-B phase II is scheduled in summer 2012).

I am almost 40 years old. I am working in a US pharmaceutical company. I found out that I am a HBVer(hbsag +, hbsab -, hbeag -, hbvdna 10^7) this summer. I started taking tenofovir on 19Sep2011. By taking tenofovir for 40 days, my alt and ast drop from 186, 163 (before taking tenofovir) to 74, 67 (after taking tenofovir 40 days)

In my opinion, HBV is a serious illness. However, if one manages it well, he should live a normal life and has the normal life expectancy as everyone else.

Thanks.

Dan

溪花禅意

因没有孩子，是否在一起取决于你们是否还有感情存在。

尽人事，听天命，如选择在一起，需要注意身体保养，日常生活需节俭以备日后可能的抗病毒之需要。

yiganxiaosan

溪花禅意 发表于 2011-11-10 08:29
因没有孩子，是否在一起取决于你们是否还有感情存在。

尽人事，听天命，如选择在一起，需要注意身体保养， ...

说实话，我对他的感情，要比他对我的感情深很多，在知道这件事情之前，他一直想跟我离婚，伤透了我的心，我现在之所以犹豫，更多的是对离婚的恐惧，我每天都浑浑噩噩的在这里看资料，工作不下去，心里再也无法开心起来，我不知道我该怎么办，有时候都有想死的心，我不知道我该怎么办，该何去何从

溪花禅意

死都不怕还怕什么！
另外，对父母的孝你都尽够了吗？
其实没那么复杂，不管怎么选都要坦然面对。