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发表于 2004-9-1 08:56
A very good article to share, a bit long but full of feeling.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never finding the courage to let the person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one. So that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance, and you find out you still care for that person.
       A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let it go. When one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch, swing with never saying a word. And then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've got until we lose it. But it is also true that we don’t know what we've been missing until it arrives. Give someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don’t expect love in return. Just wait for it to grow in their hearts but if it doesn’t be content it grew in yours. There are things you love to hear but you would never hear it from the person whom you would like to hear it from. But don’t be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart. Never say goodbye when you still want to try--never give up. When you still feel you can take it --never say you don’t love that person anymore when you cant let it go. Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, and to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.
     It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don’t go for looks that can deceive, don’t go for wealth-even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seen bright. Hope you find that person. There are moments in life when you really miss someone that you want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. Hope you dream of that someone. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want in life. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy me gift. Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably does hurt the person too. A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, a timely word may level stress, a lovely word may heal and bless. The beginning of love is to let those whom we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them with our own image--otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
     The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and end with a tea. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling -- live you life so that when you die, you are smiling and everyone around you is crying!!
助人者,天助之,自助者,天助之 Why is it that even those who are trying to DO GOOD Are subjected to PaIn, SIckneSS, TrAgEDy, and DEAth? Gain some INSIGHT into the answers by thinking about Our Own Mistakes The Ability to Choose Acts of Nature

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发表于 2004-9-1 08:59
The ariticle is not written in a native English. Is anyone who wants to refine or improve it?
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发表于 2004-9-1 23:13
Looks familiar.[em08]

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发表于 2004-9-1 23:29
Sure. I copied it from other place and just corrected some grammatical errors in it.  As it seems that the article is a translation from Chinese, in my previous post I asked if anyone can polish it. [em27][em27][em27]
  
以下是引用音悦在2004-9-1 10:13:11的发言:
Looks familiar.[em08]
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发表于 2004-9-1 23:32
以下是引用音悦在2004-9-1 10:13:11的发言:
Looks familiar.[em08]

Me too.[em08]
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发表于 2004-9-1 23:44
Well,I don't think my English is good enough to modify this article.What's more,In my opinion to understand this article is more important than to improve it.

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发表于 2004-9-2 00:04
Agree. To understand it and apply it into our life is first important to us.  In addition, I think that the article is good enough in its capacity. Maybe I should not claim too much of it lah.
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发表于 2004-9-2 04:41
All those sentences are probably combined/mixed "Love Quotations" that someone copied from the Internet.

http://www.skdesigns.com/internet/articles/prose/thoughts2.html

http://members.tripod.com/rheena23cute/lovequotes.html

too bad and no need to be polished.
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发表于 2004-9-2 04:45
Make a google search under "Don’t expect love in return", will find more similar quotes.
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发表于 2004-9-2 04:53
Sure^-^
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