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发表于 2004-6-11 21:40
最近跟孩子们交流比较多,常常被孩子们的想法所打动。这篇网上日记-(这里盛行Diary, Live Journal, 可以将不给别人看的不显示, 可以让朋友们之间交流的则可公开l)-是女儿外州朋友写的,女儿喜欢,就转录到自己的网上日记中。女儿知道我喜欢,就送了一份给我看。我看了当时楞住,说:这不是我写的吗?
不是。但是我的想法。可见我是多么的不成熟,想法跟一个十六岁的孩子一样。我对自己天生喜欢做梦,喜欢美化世界人生的幼稚多少有点不好意思。但秉性难移,这辈子就这么凑合过吧。
简单翻译一哈,比较"忙"只能意译而已
有些人走进你的生活,你立刻就能断定:他们的到来是有原因和意义的。也许他们是为了让你知道你究竟是谁,或者为了让你明白你到底想成为什么样的人。
你可能不知道这些人以什么样的面孔来到你的身边--也许是一位室友,也许是一位邻居,也许是一位教授,也许是一位朋友,也许是网上一位网友...也许的也许,只是一位陌生人。无论怎样,当你注视他们时,你知道他们将在你的人生中留下深刻的痕迹。
有些时候,有些事情听起来看上去简直恐惧极了,痛苦死了,而且极不公平,不过,只有经历那些折磨和苦难之后,你可能才能真正意识到你的力量和你的善良。
疾病,伤害,情爱,伤逝,和愚蠢都是心灵的试金石。没有这些“检验工具”,人生只是无风无浪一马平川而且没有方向的大路而已...有什么意义呢。
毫无疑问,你结识的人们将影响你的人生。而你人生路上的成功与失败将决定你是谁或你将要是谁。其实,人们从失败中学到更多更重要的东西。
如果有人爱你,请还给更多的爱。不仅仅是别人的爱你了,更因为他们教给你怎么爱,教你敞开你的心灵和心灵之窗--眼睛。如果有人伤害了你,请原谅他们吧。至少,他们教会你去信任谁,对谁打开心门。
每一天每一个时辰都很重要。过去的将不会再来。欣赏眼前的一切...。
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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be - a roommate, a neighbor, a professor, a friend, a lover, an internet friend, or even a complete stranger - but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.
Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are sometimes the most important ones.
If someone loves you, give love back to them in whatever way you can, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and listen to what they have to say.
Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don''''t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make anything you wish of your life. Create your own life and then go out
and live it with absolutely no regrets.
And if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.
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